My very first post on X, if you don’t count the repost from Tik Tok that landed me in USA today. Good Morning America wants to use my take on the ban where I ask Elon Musk if we can trust you and DJT to save the platform and protect our free speech. Can we trust he will deliver?

We must understand that people treat us not based on how they feel about us, but on their capacity at any given moment to handle their own demons. Our nature is to love, but our fear of rejection, abandonment and betrayal dwindles our capacity to give and receive it.

TikTokers are having MELTDOWNS over the app getting banned… 👀

If you voted for the Tik Tok ban, we will vote you out. If it’s one thing the last week has taught me, is that we are united now as a people. The war between R and D is over now. It’s US vs. Congress. The pitchforks are coming. U.S. Senator Mitch McConnell Senator Ted Cruz Adam Schiff

It’s final. It’s US vs. Congress. As a large creator on that platform, it’s over for whomever voted for this law. 170 million people agree.

“If they wanted to they would” only applies to new relationships. The science shows in long term relationships people operate to the capacity they can handle their own wounds and triggers—including pushing their partners away.

Your self worth has to be higher than your fear of the pain of detachment.