Anyway, hiyo story ya governor kutuma men to sodomize Men as punishment. Kitu najua people use things they know and are familiar with.
Eg, Kama hufanyi uchawi, ata mtu akikukosea aje, hutaenda kwa mchawi. Unless uchawi is something you do regularly.
Ni hayo tu kwa sasa.
I'm the dad's father. Bring the child to me and go for your dates. Don't risk my child meeting random men just because they agreed to get food for you.