What I say when people ask how I've managed to keep going through every obstacle the finance, tech and business world has thrown up for @MakeLoveNotPorn + MLNP Academy over the past 16 years (I was very touched by the sxswlondon audience's response to this, as you will see 😍 )

"To be in love we need to be both excited together and relaxed enough to experience the feelings without being overwhelmed. We need lots and lots of consent to feel this way." Thanks to my wonderful supporters for paying me to write this article. bishuk.com/your-questions…

💅🏻 "I swear, you're one of the most inclusive sex experts out there." "This was really good, and important*. *Like pretty 100% of BISH" bishuk.com/support/

This resource (with self reflection tools) is about how to feel joy. Becoming freed from sadness, through passive joy, a more active joy, and joy with others. Hope you find it useful! bishuk.com/about-you/how-…

"However when we’ve finished, he often wants to ask me if i enjoyed it, how it was, if i liked what he did/said and ik that’s a good thing he asks, but i get so embarassed to answer his questions!" Your questions answered (thanks to the BISH crowd-funders) bishuk.com/your-questions…

"This is an idea from Marx... which is where these things are in our lives (Dubai chocolate, matcha lattes, or Labubus) just kind of magically appear, rather than being made and designed by people who themselves are supported and produced by other people." bishuk.com/your-questions…

I've just written this for BISH, an answer to a question I got from a student the other day. It's a super interesting and quite a tricky question, so I hope I've done it justice. Thanks to my wonderful crowdfunding supporters for paying me to write this. bishuk.com/your-questions…

My advice for someone who is worried when he says that ‘he wants to put a baby inside her’. He says it’s a fetish and he doesn’t want to get her pregnant. Should she be worried? Is this a thing? bishuk.com/your-questions…

This course is for practitioners who would like to spend some time learning about some of the core themes in relationships and sexuality ed in some depth. Outreach workers, youth workers, PSHE co-ordinators, training leads, therapists, health advisors... bishtraining.com/advanced-rse-t…

This course is for practitioners who would like to spend some time learning about some of the core themes in relationships and sexuality ed in some depth. Outreach workers, youth workers, PSHE co-ordinators, training leads, therapists, health advisors... bishtraining.com/advanced-rse-t…

RSE often gets stuck in unhelpful binaries of: healthy / unhealthy; mind / body; nature / nurture; risk / pleasure; sex negative / sex positive In this course we will learn how to overcoming these binaries by making RSE 'a becoming' (and why that's important). #SexEd #RSE

I've done another one of my very daft quizzes for BISH. This one is about relationships. Hope you like it! bishuk.com/relationships/…

"Even the mostly ‘manly man’ or the most ‘womanly woman’ experience a thousand different genders throughout their day." #internationalmensday bishuk.com/about-you/how-…

"It’s in our interests for everyone to be able to just be themselves because we can take joy in that. Being implicated in each other’s ‘selves’ means that we can feel a part of other people’s joy too. We can fall in love with it, a micro-moment of joy." #transsolidarity

"What stood out most was Justin’s ability to balance rigour with warmth and humour, ensuring that even complex or confronting topics felt accessible and meaningful." March, 2, 3, 9, 10, 16, 17. Book by the end of December for a whopping 10% discount bishtraining.com/advanced-rse-t…

It's #WorldAidsDay and a useful time to reflect on how the global cuts to international aid and local public health and education budgets. We know how to treat HIV out of existence but Political will is not there. Many more will die as a result bishuk.com/safer-sex/hiv-…

I've made a little BISH print your own diary. A free resource for you with snippets of BISH wisdom on each page about relationships and you (nothing about sex, so it's chill). Please check it out and print it out! bishuk.com/about-you/bish…

As you can see each month has a bit of BISH guidance with snippets from some of my favourite articles about relationships and you. (There’s nothing about sex in the diary, so it’s chill). bishuk.com/about-you/bish…