Being a sweetheart to a sweetheart >>>>

ever since i read ‘an argument is two people rushing to be the victim’ i looked at arguing completely different. it’s either we’re having a civil conversation or none at all.

As an avoidant, this thread is spot on.😭

You can only stop abandoning yourself to hold space for someone who won’t even step into it. 4. We romanticise the people who make us feel intense things. But sometimes, the people who make you feel the most alive are the ones your nervous system recognises as familiar danger.

You don’t need to cut them off instantly. But you do need to stop assuming intensity equals destiny. Real healing isn’t just awareness. It’s reconditioning. This isn’t about becoming less attached. It’s about becoming less controlled by your attachment impulses.

sometimes you gotta SIT in it baby. sit in that pain. sit in that lesson. sit in that loss. sit in that job. sit in silence… just SIT with God.