OSINTdefender Don't forget about the silver lining in this story: Because of intensive pronoun training, no one on the ship was misgendered during the fire. U.S. Navy
As someone who took Koine Greek, she is not doing anything different than what pretty much everyone, including me, did when learning Koine Greek. It's a necessary, humiliating step in realizing that, no, you do not actually understand the language.