I write about sex despite risking being characterised as sleazy, obsessed etc because it’s such a mess out there and the dominant norms are hurting & traumatising many. For me it has been useful to know “another world is possible” than the vulgar desensitization and exploitation…

Hanging out with two friends and all three of us experienced our parents searching for connection in life through their babies, rather than giving it. It might be gratifying when theyre small but children grow up seriously resenting this dynamic

The problem with ordinary people trying to he good is they will make you feel like the bad one… they need to.

The free-born pleasures of an Ordinary life

Hello from driving round the island . A world where we dont have to brush our hair

as women we should be more serious about period and stop thinking it’s normal to have to be in hell each month. it ain’t normal, it’s just common.

Rushed body is a tense body
Tense body is a desensitized body
Desensitized body is an uncaring body
Uncaring body is a hazard

The whole functioning of the world is fearful presumption of separation and then struggling with that fear… and then all the activities are corrupted that are built on top of that presumption of otherness. We have to look at that presumption !!!

Amazingly enough i stopped being insane and “co-dependent” once i stopped choosing to be with someone who was constantly rejecting me out of fear of intimacy

Im begging you, a little asana pranayama and then ease into meditation naturally, pleasureably, effortlessly

I cannot see any public benefit to anyone broadcasting their random energetic changes of state, even blissful ones. What is the supposed impact?
Give me instead UG Krishnamurti, who said “it never crosses my mind i am any different from you”

Aka shavasana. Anyone considering actual death should try fake death pose first instead. All the benefits of being free from tortuous mind without the downsides of pain and actually dying. But it has to come after an actual yoga of deep breath connected w mvmt or its more torture

There’s a lot of things that SEEM relaxing because they numb or tense the body so unpleasant usual feelings cant be felt. But theyre not actually healing or restorative, or unravelling the knots that feel so unpleasant

“No strings attached” is not possible. We are embedded in this world, swirled into each other, ecological. Implicated, subtle. Things happen even if we dont feel them. We absorb each other.
So even if our bodies come together only once, let it be in profound tender love