The only cure for anxiety is recognizing you can only control fixed variables, and developing the confidence to deal with the unknown and the unexpected.
Many people think avoiding conflict reduces harm, but somewhat counterintuitively, in the long run avoiding conflict actually increases harm because all the problems that could've been dealt with swiftly are given space to grow into even bigger problems
You will never grow up until you kill your addiction to self pity, and there's no greater sign that you're still a child than believing you're owed something
Your sacrifices may not get acknowledged. Your efforts may not result in subjective glory. You need to accept this truth…
I never trust a person who isn’t honest with themselves, because if you habitually lie to yourself then it’s nothing for you to lie to me, and I know if you’re really good at lying to yourself you’ll have passionate conviction in false things, and I want no part in that circus.
Thank you for your kind words and congratulations on becoming a father - it's impossible to give age appropriate advice to what is essentially a baby, so here are some generalities:
-If someone bullies you, shows your willingness to fight - bullies are extremely perceptive of…
All lies. If your news looks like this, already youre preconditioned to despise Shane, Louie, any great comic. You’ve outsourced your interests to ghouls who make 12k a yr to publish articles like “Paddycake: It’s racist” and “Yes, it’s OK Joe Biden named his goldfish Dr. Hitler”