Having a chronic illness that affects energy/productivity is so humbling when you grew up as an academic overachiever

Like, what do you MEAN I have to find validation and self-esteem through avenues besides accomplishing things!! Accomplishing things is my whole thing!! 🙃

My latest for GQ is about toys for grinding 💦 gq.com/story/best-sex…

Thanks very much to Dom Sub Living, Kelvin Sparks ⚡ and Nicoletta Heidegger for sharing their wisdom & recommendations!

✨It's here✨I wrote a book about how to make friends as an adult, maintain friendships, cope with friend breakups, and how HARD all that is. This is the book I wish someone gave me as a kid, and its finally out on hardcover AND paperback. Please grab a copy and tell everyone?!💜

calories in calories out as it's commonly understood (number of cals you consume - how much you burn off with exercise and such) is so obviously false now it's hilarious to see people tout it as if it's one of the bespoke rules of the universe. they're so sure yet so wrong

What do sex, kink, Michelin-star restaurants, Disney World, and Dungeons & Dragons have in common? This week we’re talking about the concept of immersiveness, and what we can learn about sex and kink from studying immersive experiences. thedildorks.com/episodes/immer…

never seen an object that reminded me more of Brent Black in my life etsy.com/ca/listing/151…

If you ever need to feel humbled by what the human mind is capable of, watch the world-record-holding speedrunner playing Breath of the Wild blindfolded, fucking YEESH

I have tried SO MANY of them, but have truly never found a lipstick that lasts as long/as well as Maybelline Matte Ink amzn.to/3UiHpQU

Meals, drinks, kisses, blowjobs... almost nothing demolishes it. It's pretty wild. (My fave shades are Lover and Pioneer)

sorry i havent texted you back its just everything overwhelms me all the time

so nice to spend 10 days with my sweetheart mb ❤️

Do you have a remedy for hiccups that you think works well?

If yours works for me, I’ll send you either a raunchy selfie or a product recommendation in your category of choice!!

I was studying child development, & when a parent or adult hits a kid throughout their childhood, they can end up developing a dissociative disorder in adulthood. A child cannot physically escape abuse majority of the time, so they mentally go else where and detach mentally in

I feel I should inform you all that the girlies occasionally talk about which of our male friends are hot, and why, and we tend to mostly agree — and the deciding factor is basically never looks. It’s always about their personality, and how they carry themselves

The number of men for whom this concept does not compute is staggering.