There is a difference between building a man up and building something with him

Write a love letter to your Dad

Write all the ways you wish he would’ve supported you

Write all the things you wish he could’ve shown you

Write down all the things you do appreciate about him if you can

Write down all the ways he’s inspired you to be different

Admitting to a man aloud that you like him

I use to be so angry that I was often people’s first experience at love, at community because I often felt I was getting the short end of the stick

Not realizing the magnitude of a blessing that is

To be someone’s first introduction to what they are seeking in this world is…

I am not vain because I believe looks are everything

I am vain because I believe I should take care of what God has given me

My beauty is only a fraction of my blessings

My beauty is a reflection of inner work

God knew to make me beautiful so that you would listen

Man is…

Cause like, it’s a blessing to be able to complain. So I’ll exercise it, however, I’ll express gratitude for my burdens first. Life trusted me with these responsibilities. Which means I AM capable

Never want to change anyone!

Just want us both to grow

To experience child like wonder in love

To pour into each others cup endlessly

Remind you that you are a blessing

I know it get tiresome always being the one of with the softer heart

However the blessings that follow you are no comparison to those few moments of sadness

As long as YOUR actions and YOUR words align

Focus on your character, that’s all that matters

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There are things that are outside of our control. There are things that only we can overstand once we have gone through them.

Spirit at this time may have you in a waiting period for the next blessing so that you can truly be prepared for.…

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We can’t change what has happened. We can’t change what has gone. When we focus on what is “missing” we rob ourselves of the beautiful blessings in front of us. We rob ourselves of the beautiful blessings that wish to greet us.

When we are…

Your blessings are never going to be denied

The clutter by the door is blocking your blessings

The dust is blocking your blessings

The unorganized spaces are blocking your blessings

Clutter & mess doesn’t mean that blessings will not be present

It just has difficulty of finding a place to stay

✨BLESSINGS ARE ON THE WAY✨

I showed up for people when I was tired, hurting, broke, & even showed up when I needed someone to show up for me. I don’t owe nobody shit in this season!

When you find yourself clinging on to others or ruminating about the past, I want you to ask yourself “what do the have for me or offer me that I don’t have of offer myself?”

Often times you find the answer is nothing

Keep pushing forward

If you keep feeling like you aren’t doing a enough

Life will continue to require more out of you

Shift your mindset

What you have to offer is enough. You will improve with time.

Some people just don’t have the capacity to care for you in the ways you desire.

You have two options

1. Accept what they have to offer & adjust your expectations in this connection.

2. Go find & create relationships that share the same capacity as you.

You can always get…

So many of you have rooted what you bring to the table in dollar value that you didn’t spend any time working on your character & personality

That is why you feel you have nothing to offer others

I gotta stop tellin men that “money isn’t everything” because they interpret it as they don’t have to spend money on me & that’s not what I’m sayin

Cause baby you need to drop some coin, it just can’t be all you offer

I have real thoughts & real desires outside the material