Muslim imam in UK has clear ideas: 'No integration, no multiculturalism, no diversity and no tolerance. You have democracy, we have Sharia.' Sharia above host country law. We need mass deportations.
Just because you've empathy and you understand someone's traumatic past is the cause of their harmful behavior, doesn't mean you should continue to tolerate them hurting you. Unconditional love doesn't mean unconditional tolerance. Empathy without boundaries is self-destruction.
Unhealed trauma will sometimes give you a high tolerance threshold to abusive behaviour. Just because you can handle it doesn't mean you have to tolerate it.
War did not change anyone, war only revealed what was hidden. The one who has goodness inside him appears, the one who has hatred inside him appears, the one who has selfishness inside him appears, and the one who has all tolerance inside him appears. -in the end : Difficultโฆ