You can learn a lot about people from what they lack. If they lack accountability, they'll shift the blame. If they lack communication skills, they'll say you're arguing. If they lack emotional intelligence, they'll call you sensitive. If they lack effort, they're not interested.
Take a moment to reflect. Be proud of how far you have come. The bad in others never destroyed the good in you. No amount of pain turned you bitter. You chose yourself, and life is about to get really good, and sweet, and soft, and dreamy, and I just love that for you.
