Give yourself permission not to be accessible at all times. Ignore that voicemail. Leave that message on read. Turn off your phone. Don’t answer emails. Destroy your SIM card. Burn your house down. Disappear under mysterious circumstances.
In my 20s my list of what I wanted in a spouse was 10000000000000 things long written in pink gel pen with hearts all around and now it’s like 6 words hurriedly scribbled on a sweetgreen napkin “a partner with read receipts on”
My gfs and I are big on “manifesting things” which means writing & speaking as if we have already gotten a job, opportunity, or possession. It works, but a lot of our conversations & strewn around notebooks make us look like mega lying bitches.
