Arthi Jayaraman Academia is definitely a place where there is so much rejection and stress. Checking out and taking a real break is not really feasible like in other jobs - our commitments are long term, and there's no 'backup'. I'm sorry it has been a rough week. Sending you cat love.
Aditi Jain Preeti Sharma Yes! Thank you!
From many direct communications, I know the sentiment I share above is one many PIs feel in academia but hesitate to share. It is not just students who have difficult days, faculty members & staff do as well!
Arthi Jayaraman Come to Game Changer Academies- that’s exactly why CMMI has created such program. Many PDs join in the discussion sessions.
Edward Maginn Thanks Edward Maginn !
I tell my students this & thus, I follow it myself.
‘It is okay to give oneself 2-4 hours to vent & steam after a bad outcome & then one should let it go.’
I do plan to write to NSF that commenting on a PIs’ personal life choices have no place in reviews.
Arthi Jayaraman Preeti Sharma Yup, I agree. I speak with research scholars often who share the same experience but are unable to express it due to fear of coming across as a negative person. Irony is, everyone would feel better and find quick solutions if they knew of these shared challenges.
Arthi Jayaraman Sorry this happened - it should not have. But I’m not surprised. Don’t let it get to you. There are so many aspects of reviews, funding, and publication that need to change.