Do you ever get attracted to someone's mindset??? Like, someone's way of thinking really hits different because it's the most captivating aspect of an individual's personality. How can you be so intelligent while being extremely attractive at the same time?

Hoy, never force a relationship that isn't meant to work.Sometimes it's better to move on than to hold on to a person who doesn't understand who you truly are. Unfortunately, there will be times where your absence will teach you what your presence cannot.

Green flags seem unnoticed nowadays noh? They say, healthy relationships are boring daw but imagine someone makes you feel comfortable and secure, remembers little tiny details about you including your favorites and gives you assurance even if you have not asked for it.

As you grow older, you start to crave for more peace of mind. You start to appreciate silence and quiet places noh? You wanna make sure your self worth is non-negotiable. When something feels off you'll make sure to peacefully let it go. No heavy heart and no arguments.

Hoy, being strong and acting perfectly fine doesn't mean we don't need someone else. One of the best feelings is when you have someone you can call 'home', especially whenever everything's getting pretty bad. Even the strongest person has their weakest point.

Basta settle with someone who is always sure about you. You deserve consistency and assurance, you deserve that type of love that allows you to sleep peacefully at night.

I hope this time when you see the lack of effort, you don't force it. You pick up and go. And I hope this time you save yourself before you even get damaged.

Yow

How can a person know everything at 18 but nothing at 28??? Hits different because at 18, you plan everything based on what you think life would be. At 28, you get slapped by the reality that life doesn't always go according to plan and now you're just trying to survive the day.

As you get older, you start to pay more attention to people's mindset rather than their looks noh?

Focus on your own goals and career. Don't trust too much or end with regrets. Try to do things outside of your comfort zone. Take care of yourself and don't take life too seriously. Enjoy and don't make things you'll regret when you're 30's and remember true love can surely wait.

Sometimes, we tend to look for the things that we don't yet have noh? I mean,gusto mo ng kotse,bahay, ganito, ng ganyan. We are being consumed kung ano yung mga wala pa sa'tin without even realizing what we currently have & how far we've already come. MALAYO KA PA PERO MALAYO NA.

Sending hugs to everyone healing from things they don't discuss with anyone.

Take some time to rest and recover. You don't always have to be so busy, pushing yourself so hard, take a step back and take care of yourself. Those moments of self care will add value, peace of mind and purpose. Find a healthy balance and enjoy life.

The older you get, the more comfortable you are with being left out because you enjoy your alone time. Minsan nakakapagod din talaga makipagsocialize sa ibang tao noh?

Adulting advice? Take yourself on dates, go to new places and allow yourself to do all the things you really want to do. Don't wait for someone else to give you permission. Do whatever makes you happy. The days aren't coming back.

Hoy, maybe people will only realize your worth if you stop chasing them. If you stop giving them your attention, time and effort. Sometimes you need to act like you don't care and stop pursuing them. Well, love never gets tired but pain makes us weak.

The older you get, the less energy you spend on people who judge you noh? Maturity is closing the book on people who judge your story by the chapter they walked in on.