How do you pursue friendship with your spouse?

For us, we are intentional to spend time connecting, to laugh together often, and to dream about our future together.

How about you? Are intentional to connect?

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If you have any unresolved brokenness or trauma in your life (and you probably do), you will not be able to correct it until you first do the work to recognize it. And if you haven’t recognized it, you are already passing it on to others — especially your kids.

Why wait?

The first to apologize is the bravest.

The first to forgive is the strongest.

The first to forget is the happiest.

Be the first to extend grace!

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PARENTING TIP

Do you want your kids to play it safe or to build character. You can’t have both.

Think about it. You want to protect your kids from everything; hardship, difficult emotions, work that’s too hard, and getting hurt. By doing so, could you be robbing them of growth?

In marriage, difficult roads can often lead to very beautiful places. This means if you give up during the challenging times, you will never see what waits on the other side!

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A husband's greatest privilege is being able to tell his wife he loves her without uttering a single word. Can you pull this off? Can you do it this week?

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Think of Your Marriage as…

More of “you and me against the world.”

And less of “you and me against each other.”

Let’s us know how we can help.

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Sometimes the best way to heal from an unhealthy past is with a healthy present.

And, it takes time to create a healthy present. Be patient and keep doing what you know is right.

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Regret is a powerful motivator. It can motivate you to stay stuck in your past (shame) or to reclaim your present and future.

Do not allow your past to control and ruin your present. The truth is, you need to make up for lost time, not waste more of it!

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We believe this is a true statement:

EVERY MARRIAGE NEEDS GRACE TO SURVIVE.

Take a moment to consider if you are ready and willing to extend grace.

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Don’t allow our culture to dull your senses about infidelity or your marriage! Just because hooking up is portrayed in the movies and media as common, does not mean it’s good for your marriage. It isn’t!

BE ON GUARD!
Read this 5 minute article, please!
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Partly right can still be partly wrong.

Since nobody can be completely right all of the time, focus on where you could be wrong so you can enjoy some personal growth.

Your weaknesses will teach you more than your strengths ever will.

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If you are bored with your marriage, you are not paying attention. 🤷🏻‍♀️ It’s time to slow down and focus on what’s right in front of you. 👩🏻‍🤝‍👨🏼

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You may be making demands of your spouse that they don’t know about – and they couldn’t meet your demands if they did.

We call these “expectations.”

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Happy couples know how to listen to each other with a filter of, 'They are speaking from their perspective, not mine.'

This makes sense when you read it, but nearly all couples make this communication mistake at some point.

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The act of lying is often more damaging than anything you could possibly lie about. Protect the trust you have built with your spouse by being honest—even when honesty seems difficult.

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What is love?

It is the courage to remain faithful when the cost, at times, may seem greater than the reward.

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HUSBANDS: when you have a healthy love for your wife, you have a singular, discriminatory focus on her.

She is your object of affection, your ultimate prize.

There is no room for another.

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Which One of You is Right?
During a disagreement, 94% of spouses believe they are right and their spouse is wrong. You CANNOT both be 94% right!

So, what’s the takeaway?
Most of the time, both you and your spouse each think you are right – and you can’t be!

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If you are trying to get your marriage back on track, your most important decision is your next one.

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