Introverts shut down when they're going through shit. They want no sympathy. No advice. No 'fixing'. All they want is silence & solitude. They know how to pull themselves out. Just leave them alone for a while.
DON'T NO FEMALE WANNA BE MAD ALL THE TIME OR CALLED TOXIC!! BUT BRUH Y'ALL DUDE'S GOTTA REALIZE THAT WOMEN REACT OFF THE WAY YOU MOVE. BEING STUCK IN YOUR WAYS... POINTING OUT EVERY FLAW BUT HAVEN'T TOOK A LOOK IN THE MIRROR AT YOURSELF!? YOU WANT TO BE CATERED TO & RESPECTED AS
If youโve dated someone as an adult who had their first relationship with you, youโll understand why them younger relationships are important. Dating ppl who never had a serious relationship before you is the absolute worst.
My misery doesnโt like company. I go missing and handle up. When Iโm not โokโ I accept that Iโm not ok, and I donโt want to hear no fake motivation from nobody. Let me be and ill be back when Iโm 100%.
Itโs a difference between waiting on someone to change and grow and someone thatโs trying to manipulate you into sticking around while they dog you out. I have no issue waiting on anyone to grow because we all have growing to do but what you not gonna do is slime me in the
Iโm slowly learning that even if I react, it wonโt change anything. It wonโt make certain people suddenly, understand & respect you, it wonโt magically change their minds. Sometimes itโs better to say nothing & remove yourself from them.
God did a rico sweep on my life he literally got rid of everybody & everything that didnโt align with me and my path. It may have hurted & was a hard process but it was all worth it in the end having the wrong people around when you start to reach new levels can be dangerous.