@jamierosedee What's with all of the 'forgive and forget.' First, not everyone heals the same, maybe it worked for you doesn't mean its for everyone. Two, forgiveness is fine, but never forget that leaves room for the issue to happen again. Let people heal on their own terms and rate.
Cosmos @jamierosedee The evil, abusive ex stepfather, who terrorized me for 14 yrs of childhood, finally died 3 days ago. When I received the news, I threw my hands in the air & danced in my kitchen. There was a lot of shouting, too. 57 years to get my wish granted.