LOVE vs. DESIRE

Desire says, “l want you, I need you, and I will do anything to get you for myself.”

Love says, “I want what’s best for YOU at all times and in all circumstances.”

See the difference?

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When was the last time you added some healthy and lasting spice to your marriage?

Do you ever cook together?

Cooking together is a fun and easy way to pour health into your relationship.

Read more here!
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Don’t allow our culture to dull your senses about infidelity or your marriage! Just because hooking up is portrayed in the movies and media as common, does not mean it’s good for your marriage. It isn’t!

BE ON GUARD!
Read this 5 minute article, please!
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Partly right can still be partly wrong.

Since nobody can be completely right all of the time, focus on where you could be wrong so you can enjoy some personal growth.

Your weaknesses will teach you more than your strengths ever will.

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One of the most important articles we’ve ever written.

Are you struggling to find hope for your marriage?
There is ALWAYS hope if you know where to look.

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Each day you will have a hundred small choices to make in your marriage.
Will you hold a grudge or let it go?
Will you complain or praise?
Will you choose bitterness or forgiveness?

Be intentional with these choices and you will thrive!

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Someday, when we renew our vows, I will gladly promise you even more than I did the first time!

Can I promise you more than life itself?

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When you set out to prove you are right, it will lead to conflict.

When you set out to improve your relationship, it will lead to deep emotional connection.

Choose connection over conflict.
It’s easier said than done, but it can be done!

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We are created for connection.
So, we must learn how to #CONNECT

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If you want to enjoy your future together, you need to make peace with your past.

You must learn to forgive others and yourself too. Forgiveness is a vital part of a great marriage.

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You and your spouse can be critical of every little thing that bugs you about each other or you can try to enjoy every precious moment together.

Which will you choose?

The choice really is yours!

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IS KISSING A BIG DEAL?

Did you know there is science that supports the benefits of kissing often?

If you LOVE kissing, this is great news. If you don’t, it’s time to figure out why you are willing to miss out on this potential benefit to your marriage.
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Sometimes, the simplest messages are the best!

True and authentic love conquers all.

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Anyone can learn how to be a better listener – ANYONE!

Do you have a set of tools you can use to get you back on track when your communication is suffering? We do.

This is the reason we wrote #ReadyToSurrenderBook . It has helped thousands of couples.

LOVE IS LOVE?

This is a common message in our culture that you should NOT allow to seep into your marriage.

There are different kinds of love for different people in your life.

You love a friend one way and a parent another way.

All love is NOT the same! Think about it.

Making this one mistake in marriage has huge consequences.

“Don’t let your emotions override your intelligence.”

You must learn how to control (not suppress) your emotions and the behavior that follows.

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A spouse who feels appreciated will alway do more than is expected.

A very helpful quote from Awesome Marriage

We agree and wrote a blog post about affirming each other.
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Progress, not perfection, should be the goal of a healthy marriage. Take time to reflect on where your relationship is improving and celebrate those wins as you go.

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Marriages don’t last solely because of the good times.
Marriages last because the hard times were handled well.

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Do you ever slow down to reflect on the great times you’ve had together?
We do!
You get to enjoy great times when they happen, and each time you slow down and reflect on them, you get to enjoy them all over again!
Make time to slow down and reflect. It’s good for your marriage.