Honest question here as a man who's had major heart surgery, bad back , bad knees but continue to work to support my family should I get pissed when a younger person in much better physical condition begs for money?

Dave Thomas good comic covers from yesteryear I’d say you shouldn’t. We al make assumptions of what came before that. The first person clearly learned we succeed after we fail - but only with resources & support. We don’t know why the latter didn’t get over their falls & therefore best to show kindness. That’s my stance.