If you're serious about 'proving the middle ground', maybe you can honestly answer a question? Kirstie Allsopp
Do you believe that male born people with a penis should be free to access and undress in female communal changing rooms where women and girls are undressing?

Helen Staniland Remind me which shops have guards on the changing room doors, or any real way of barring anyone, regardless of what they are wearing?

Kirstie Allsopp Why would I need to do that? Can you honestly answer?

Helen Staniland You wouldn’t, which is what this whole changing room/toilet trans people threat thing is a moral panic. Men that women already know are by far the greatest danger to women.